What is Mocha Dates?

Mocha Dates is a sophisticated speed dating experience for singles of color that offers a safe and easy way to meet new people and make new friends in a relaxed environment.

 

Other speed dating companies only feature singles of color in a “guest-star” role by having, for example, one night a month devoted to your interests and culture. Mocha Dates is different. We place you, the single person of color, in the star role as leading man or leading woman. At Mocha Dates you are not an afterthought, you are the priority as we CATER to the single person of color. The entire Mocha Dates experience SUPPORTS, HIGHLIGHTS and PROMOTES the culture, lifestyle, experience and essence of the single person of color, from the icebreaker activities to the music playing in the background.

 

Is Mocha Dates just for Black people?

Mocha Dates is a sophisticated dating experience for singles of color. Speed dating got its start in the Jewish community as young single Jewish people wanted to have an outlet to meet, date and form relationships with like-minded individuals. We are no different. When we examined the speed dating scene, we saw that there were no outlets that catered to, embraced and supported singles of color, and that is how Mocha Dates was born. Mocha Dates provides singles of color an opportunity to meet, date and form relationships with like-minded individuals just as the Jewish community did many years ago. However, it is not our wish to exclude any race or ethnic group.

 

Is Mocha Dates an official dating service?

Mocha Dates is not officially a dating service. We provide an avenue for like-minded people to meet for an ice-breaker event and decide if they wish to maintain contact with each other. A dating service charge its clients ongoing membership fees that are usually hundreds to thousands of dollars and tries to match its clients based on specific preferences.

 

Do you provide background checks or screen the applicants?

Again, we are NOT a dating service, so we do not provide background checks or screen any of our applicants. Mocha Dates provides a format for you to meet a variety of new people, and you should take the same precautions that you would take if you met someone in another venue like the club or grocery store.

 

How do I sign up to be a Mocha Dates participant?

As long as you are at least 25 years old and consider yourself to be SINGLE you may register to be a Mocha Date participant by clicking on the registration tab on the MochaDates.com website and following the very simple instructions including making a payment online. If you are unable to make a payment online or prefer to mail your payment in by check or money order, you may simply do so by calling and speaking to one of our event coordinators at our toll-free number: 1-800-313-5613. You will be considered officially registered for an event once we receive payment from you and you have received a confirmatory call from one of our event coordinators.

 

What if I am only interested in meeting a certain type of participant such as participants that have a certain profession, make a certain amount of money, do not have kids, etc.?

Mocha Dates encourages people to meet and interact on a deeper level and form a deeper connection. However, we recognize the importance of “personal preference” to people and we suggest that people who have very specific preferences seek the services of a dating service that strives to link people biased on individual preferences. Incidentally, it should be noted that this type of service usually costs each individual participant hundreds to thousands of dollars.

 

Please keep in mind that the goal of each event is for the participants to have a good time meeting new people. Your chance of success will be greatly increased if you approach the other event participants with an open mind and not carry preconceived notions about certain preferences or types. Oftentimes, the best connections occur amongst people who are open to having new experiences and meeting new and different types of people. Finally, when you walk into an event, please shed all stereotypes and specific preferences, relax, open your mind, and you will have a better chance of walking away with a new friend and a meaningful connection.

 

What is the age range?

25+

 

Are there any success stories?

YES!!! We receive calls from participants frequently regarding the fun that they are having with their matches. In fact, one of our success stories was featured in an article in the Houston Chronicle.

 

How many people attend each event?

Our goal is 20 men and 20 women for each event. Mocha Dates is unique in the speed dating arena because every participant gets to “date” everyone in the room, not just the people that are on your dating card. Therefore, a gentleman would have the opportunity to date ALL 20 women in the room and vice versa for a lady!

 

What is the registration fee for a Mocha Dates event?

Pre-registration is mandatory for every event and is $20 per person.

 

Can I pay when I arrive at the event?

No. Pre-registration is mandatory to have an equal number of ladies and gentlemen for the event.

 

What are the different ways that I can pay for my event registration?

Online registration using a credit or debit card is the quickest and easiest method of paying for your event registration. However, you may also pay with a bank check, personal check or money order that you may mail to us.

 

Why is Mocha Dates $20 instead of $10?

We feel that the registration fee for Mocha Dates is extremely affordable and very competitive with other evening events such as dinner and a movie, going to a club, attending the theatre, etc. Your $20 registration fee gets you a fun, dynamic event where you get to “date” 20 other men or women and enjoy wonderful cuisine. Also please keep in mind that other speed dating events begin at $35 and up.

 

What happens if I need to cancel my event?

We encourage as much advance notice as possible if you are unable to attend an event, because the success of each event hinges on the maximum number (20) of both genders being present. It becomes a little unfair if a lady has the opportunity to “date” all 20 men but each gentlemen only has the opportunity to “date” 15 women or vice versa. However, if you must cancel your event, we require at least 48 hours notice to give you one courtesy event reschedule. Less than 48 hours notice will require forfeiture of your registration fee and you will be required to re-register and pay another registration fee to attend a future event.

 

When will I find out what event date I am confirmed for?

After we receive your payment, one of our event coordinators will contact you within 48 hours to confirm payment receipt and event placement.

 

Can I participate if I am in a relationship but not married?

Mocha Dates is an event for SINGLES. If you cannot classify yourself as SINGLE, then you should not participate.

 

Can I participate if I am in an unhappy relationship?

Mocha Dates is an event for SINGLES. If you cannot classify yourself as SINGLE, then you should not participate.

 

Can I participate if I am unhappily married?

Mocha Dates is an event for SINGLES. If you cannot classify yourself as SINGLE, then you should not participate.

 

Can I participate if I am married?

Mocha Dates is an event for SINGLES. If you cannot classify yourself as SINGLE, then you should not participate.

 

Can I participate if I am bisexual?

If you are single, you are welcome to participate. However, please be aware that honesty and communication are the foundation of any friendship and some people may not feel comfortable dating a bisexual person so early disclosure is highly recommended.

 

Do you have events that cater to same-sex participants?

At this time, we do not have any events that cater to same-sex participants.

 

Can I participate if I am divorced?

Yes, you may participate as long as you are single.

 

Can I participate if I am separated, but not yet divorced?

If you honestly classify yourself as single, then you are welcome to participate. However, please remember that honesty and communication are the foundation of any budding friendship and some people may not feel comfortable dating a LEGALLY married person so early disclosure is highly recommended.

 

Can I participate if I have children?

Yes, as long as you are single.

 

Can my friend and I participate in an event together?

If you and your friend are in the same age category and register for the same event at the same time, it is quite possible that you both will be able to participate in the event together.

 

How should I dress?

This is a meet-and-greet event so all participants should dress to impress. And while we know that “dress to impress” will mean different things to different people, we do ask that participants keep in mind that this is a classy and upscale event and dress accordingly.

 

What if I am nervous or a shy person, any recommendations for how I should interact with the other participants?

During the event, the participants will be presented with several “ice-breaker” props that stimulate conversation and promote interaction even with the most nervous or shy participant.

 

What am I not allowed to do while participating in a Mocha Dates event?

In order to ensure that these events are fun, exciting, and relaxed, we have a few rules that we MUST have 100% cooperation with or a participant could be asked to leave the event and may be barred from participating in any future events:

You cannot ask anyone for any contact information of ANY type.
You cannot ask anyone out for a second date or try to pressure them into picking you for a second date.
You are not allowed to use profanity, exhibit lewd behavior, engage in sexually suggestive conversation or make sexually suggestive comments or participate in any behavior that would compromise or interrupt the relaxed and engaging atmosphere that we try to ensure at all Mocha Dates events.
You are not allowed to exhibit any behavior or comments that may be interpreted as threatening, inappropriate or disruptive by the other participants or staff.
You are not allowed to violate the personal space of another participant or staff member.
You are not allowed to participate in an event if you are intoxicated or under the influence of an illegal drug/substance.

How soon after we arrive at an event does it actually begin?

Our goal is to have these events begin on time which would be within 15 minutes of the start time, however, we are somewhat flexible to ensure that everyone has the best event possible and no one is left sitting at a table alone.

 

What time does the event start and how long does it last?

This can be variable. Please check with our website for specific times.

 

Can I still participate if I arrive late?

We will try, within reason, to accommodate you if you happen to be late. However, please remember that punctuality is essential for everyone to have the best event possible

 

Can I choose more than one second date?

We strongly encourage people to be very liberal in their choices and, most definitely, chose ALL categories for people that you really want to maintain contact with to increase your chances of a match. We want people to have multiple matches because that increases your chances of having a meaningful connection with someone special. And please remember that your selections are kept confidential and handled only by Mocha Dates staff so feel free to make multiple selections.

 

Can I pick who I want to “date” during a Mocha Dates event?

No. Mocha Dates is very unique in that every participant gets the opportunity to “date” everyone in the room and not just a select group of event participants.

 

Are food and drink included in the registration fee?

Food is generally included in the registration fee; however, you will be expected to purchase your own beverages.

 

When I get a Mocha Match, what personal information about me do they receive?

Mocha Matches get whatever information that you furnish to us as contact information which is an email address and/or phone number. We never furnish home addresses or work addresses or other more detailed information even if you gave it to us.

 

If I have submitted my matches, but then I change my mind about who I want to see my contact information, can I withdraw that information?

On the day of the event, prior to turning in your date card to a Mocha Dates staff member, you may reconsider your final matches as many times as you would like. However, once you turn in your date card and the event is over, your choices will be officially considered your final answers and changes will not be accepted.

 

When will I be notified with my Mocha Matches?

You will be notified of your Mocha Matches within 48 hours of your event by email (or an alternative method to be discussed if you do not have email access).

 

What happens if I do not get any matches?

Usually if an applicant does not get any matches it is because they did not select all categories, 2nd date, friend and business contact, for the person that they are interested in. Also, we find that usually even if the applicant does not have any official matches, they will have several people that are interested in them for a 2nd date and we release this information upon request.

 

Will I appear on promotional advertising for your company?

Yes. All Mocha Date participants can expect that they could appear on our promotional materials. We always ensure that our participants are well-represented in the classiest and most professional way possible and we guarantee that photo procurement never interferes with the integrity of your event.

 

When you will have an event in my area?

Keep checking with us on our website. Our current and upcoming events will be posted.

 

Does Mocha Dates provide refunds?

There are rare instances where we may provide a refund to a client and usually involves extenuating circumstances. It should be understood that the success of each event centers on an equal number of men AND women participating, and, therefore, occasionally, if this is not achieved, do to circumstances beyond our control, we will have to postpone the event. In this situation, you will be called and informed that you will be placed in another upcoming event.